When I was a kid, my Easters were mostly non-religious. My mama said
that the communion was a thing of the heart and soul and should always
be in the back of our minds. Where we went to church, each Sunday
morning service was was ended by the Communion. However, she did like to
buy me and herself each an outfit of new spring clothing which we wore
on Easter Sunday; I suppose that was Dot’s Easter religion. While we
were at church, many more of our clan were gathering at grandma’s house
for a big dinner. Grandma, always an early riser, was up by 3:30am to
start the day’s food preparations. Her day began by building a fire in
the living room fireplace and then doing the same in the kitchen cook
stove. She then donned a coat and used the outdoor facilities which were
on the hilltop back of the house. When Dot and I got home from church
at about 12:30pm, the food was generally ready, the table was taken up
by men-folk, women were serving, and kids grabbed a plate and, if the
weather was good, went outside to the porch to eat. In bad weather,
which we had most of the Easters I remember from those days, kids were
sprawled all over the living room floor while they ate and made a mess.
After the meal was finished–women ate last–the entire crowd would gather
inside or outside and the reminiscing about Easters past would begin.
Men talked men talk and smoked and women (according to the men)
gossiped. I couldn’t tell much difference between the two. Sooner or
later, Jim Butler would go to his car and retrieve his guitar and a
couple of hours of picking and grinning would ensue. If we were trapped
inside by bad weather, kids had no choice but to endure but if we were
outside, we scattered into small groups as far away from the adults as
possible. Where ever we were, we managed to hide our colored Easter eggs
and then tried to find those of the other kids. Many of the family
would leave for home or other amusements as the afternoon dragged on,
but a few would stay for supper which was leftovers usually served with
fresh bread at around 4:00pm. My day normally ended by accompanying Dot
back to church no matter how hard I plead to stay home “just this one
time”.
Have a Tuesday!
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